I Just Need the Chance to Stand Again — For Myself and My Son.

Anthony J. Bates Jr.

Anthony is a father, a fighter, and a man who refuses to give up. Your support can help keep a roof over his head and give him a chance to build a better life for his son. Let's stand beside him.

Hear Anthony's Story — A Father's Heart

I don't just want to survive — I want to show my son what it means to overcome. – Anthony

About Anthony

Anthony Jerome Bates Jr. isn't asking for handouts—he's asking for a chance. A devoted father, he's trying to rebuild his life so he can once again provide for the one person who matters most to him: his son.

After losing his housing and stability due to life-altering setbacks, Anthony found himself at a crossroads. But his motivation never wavered. Every day, he wakes up with one goal: to get back on his feet so his son can be proud of him.

He's actively job hunting, staying clean, focused, and hopeful—doing everything right. He just needs a little help to get through this chapter.

Why We're Raising Funds

Anthony is in urgent need of support to cover rent and essentials for 3–6 months. This time will allow him to:

  • Secure consistent work
  • Maintain a safe, stable living environment
  • Rebuild his life with dignity and purpose
  • Stay in close contact with his son and keep their bond strong

Without this help, he risks losing more than a place to sleep—he risks losing connection, hope, and the ability to be present for his child.

How You Can Help

  • Give what you can – even $5 is a big step forward.
  • Share this story – your voice spreads hope.
  • Support with prayer, encouragement, or connection – it all matters.
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How Your Donation Helps

Each donation goes directly to housing and stability for Anthony:

$25

Gas and/or a warm meal for the day

$100

Utilities or basic groceries

$250

About a week of housing and peace of mind

$500

About a week of housing and meals for the month

$1,500

One month of housing plus warm meals for the month – a kickstart

$3,000

Multiple months of housing — a launchpad for change

I don't want my son to remember me for the times I was struggling. I want him to remember that his dad got back up, that I made it because people believed in me. That matters more to me than anything.

— Anthony J. Bates Jr.

At Relief Alliance, we believe in helping people when it matters most. We’re committed to uplifting American families through crisis, especially when a parent's love is their driving force.

We don’t just offer aid—we shine a spotlight on real people, with real needs and real dreams—like Anthony’s.

Want to know more about Anthony or help in another way?